CONFIDENCE? WHO OWNS IT?

I'm a people's person so I meet and talk to a lot of people and I find that confidence is something that most people long for and struggle with. There's a saying that:

' Confidence is often borrowed and never owned'

I don't know about you but I'd rather OWN my confidence but this concept of borrowing can be useful. Keep reading and you'll see why. We need confidence in many different situations in life. We need confidence in:

• Job interviews
• Relationships
• Physical appearance
• Our dreams
• Our religions
• etc etc etc (if you have your own add to the list)

Now the one thing I didn't include in that list was 'self confidence' this is because self confidence covers all the above.

Yes weu may have doubts in certain areas but if we have confidence in ourselves and who we are than were ready to roll. If the cake is nice who NEEDS icing? you only WANT icing to boost the taste you'll never NEED it. NEEDS AND WANTS are two different things. Self confidence is the cake because it covers all bases of confidence and the icing is the above list. Last week me and my friend were talking about confidence and I told her that

'Confidence is an outfit that people put on when necessary'

Why did I say that? Because until you completely sort out your self confidence you will always have days that you don't feel completely confident. So what do you do?

BORROW IT! lol.

Life goes on whether you’re confident or not, you still have to go out, meet new people, speak to people and so on.

So.............. Instead of looking like a victim borrow some confidence. Before you leave your house grab your confidence as if it’s a jacket and put it on.

SCENARIO: If you woke up on the day of an important job interview feeling low you will definitely need to borrow some confidence because you don't want to go to the interview seeming unsure of yourself. Heels boost my confidence I don't know why but it just does. I didn’t say Heels make me confident I said it boosts my confident, like the icing on my cake.

Today’s message is: find out who you are, become someone that you can have confidence in and be proud of yourself. If your not proud of yourself than you know what it is you need to adjust.

Put your heels on and absorb your confidence!!